[Before the entire ... disaster that had led him to a desert on Tatooine, Anakin displaying that sort of anger would have really upset him, and had him at least mildly rebuking and trying to soothe.

Now it more or less washes over him, though he still finds it uncomfortable. It's just that it's uncomfortable in another way entirely. Less about wanting to make Anakin feel better and being uncomfortable with emotional displays and more about feeling threatened. ]

Yes. And is often the case with prophesies and visions, in trying to avoid the thing you fear, you instead take those actions that bring it about.

[ He would have been quite happy to see the force remain unbalanced, thank you. ]